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Questions, questions and more questions! They are the most interesting thing that we can ask when we are on a first date with someone. You just have to be careful not to overdo it and turn it into an interview! Questions are the best way to get to know someone and show them we are interested in them. On a first date you just have to be careful not to overdo it and turn it into an interview!

Dale Carnegie in his best-selling book, \”How to win friends and influence people\” shares about the amazing power of asking interesting questions to show that we are interested in connecting with someone else.

You must have been to a party and you\’ve been the one asking the questions and doing most of the listening? If you have you will probably attest that the other person thought that the conversation was quite interesting – funny that! You probably did less that twenty percent of the speaking but you got 100% of the credit!

If you are a guy and ask careful questions from a lady, you will often find yourself jumping to last-base, thus saving yourself a lot of legwork trying to build rapport with her. Asking questions and listening is one of the most naturally flattering things you can do to anyone.

If you are a lady and want to stroke a guy\’s ego and make him feel good then ask lots of interesting questions and then listen to the answers. You will have the guy on a string from there on!

Despite the ego-stroking that can happen, if you ask and listen there is also a genuine side to the picture as well. Because people who\’re genuinely interested in someone else, are the people who are most popular and well liked. Faking interest is the worst thing you can do. And at the end of the day, if you are not a natural listener then put yourself to the test and practice. You will start to learn SO much about so many things and you will discover parts of people that are just SO interesting to learn about.

Here\’s 21 questions to ask a guy or girl to get conversation jump-started. They have been written from a female perspective, however just switch them around if you are a guy and want to use them. If nothing else it will get you thinking about your own questions – which are always better.

Here\’s 21 questions to ask a guy or a girl

1. If you are working as a waiter and one of your customers was rude, would you spill food accidentally on them or worst still spit in their soup?

2. What is you all time favourite film and why?

3. If you could choose to have dinner with 5 people (real of fictional) who would you invite and why?

4. If you could become the invisible man, where would you go and what would you do when you got there?

5. If someone was to make a comedy movie about just one part of your life, which part would they script and what would be written?

6. What was your fondest television character when you were a young child? What was it that you liked about them?

8. What do you regret not doing the most in your life?

8. What\’s the funniest experience in your whole entire life?

9. Have you ever had a date with a person that is much fatter or slimmer than you and when you saw them for the first time what did you think?

10. How old were you when you had your first proper date? Did you get to kiss them and if so was it a French kiss?

11. What\’s the most horrible lie you have ever told someone in your life? Where you caught out and who was it that you told it to?

12. If you were suddenly turned into a woman for a day, how would you spend that day?

13. If you do not like someone what do you normally do, show it or hide it and why?

14. Which do you prefer the most in a woman – intelligence, a good body or good looks?

And now let\’s get a little risqu! Obviously you would have had a few drinks before asking some of these questions!

15. Have you ever been caught with your pants down in a public place – if so what were you doing?

16. What\’s the difference between sex and making love and which do you prefer?

17. If you could suddenly change the age you lost your virginity, would you?

18. What\’s your biggest sexual \’turn-ons\’ and \’turn-offs\’?

19. Have you ever cheated on your partner? Did they ever find out? If so, what happened?

20. Have you ever been caught touching yourself sexually? If you did, how old where you and who caught you?

21. Have you ever been to an orgy with more than two other people? If so did you have sex or just watch?

If you would like to read more fun questions that you can ask different guys then visit 21 questions to ask a guy today.

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